VENTING!!!

Warning.....I am about to vent. If you know me you know this has to be a good one to warrant a "vent"!!....proceed with caution!
Here it goes, I guess I am supposed to somehow be able to control the fact that both Noel and Jayden call people when I am not at home and ask to go over to their house and one has success and the other doesn't. I am supposed to wave a magic wand and make everyone happy and all hunky dory all while I am at work. Probably my number one pet peeve is calling me at work about something that is totally out of my control!! So, today (even tho I think it's totally ridiculous but I was trying to be nice and make everyone happy so I don't have to hear for the next week how mean I am because I didn't make sure everyone had the playdate they wanted) I let Noel call a friend and see if they can work out a playdate tomorrow. She gets a hold of someone and I talk to the mom and we set a date for tomorrow. GUESS WHO IS THROWING A FIT????? Wait for it.....BOTH KIDS!!!! UGH, am I surprised No! This is the EXACT reason I don't play the "make everyone happy" game!!!!!!IT NEVER WORKS!!!!!One is crying because she wanted to go there and not have her come here ( apparently I am a mind reader and am supposed to know this while talking to the mother, even tho we clearly stated that she was going to come here before????) the other is crying because now she won't have anyone to play with ( yet we have 3 girls in our house. She very well could play with Kaylin). So, now we are back to the point of why I DON'T do this!! No one is ever happy!! Life is full of disappointments. Sometimes you are able to do the things you want and other times you aren't. I will NOT go out of my way to make everyone happy EVER again!! I usually don't but like I said before I was trying to appease everyone. Now I am waaayyyy over it and decided  they can just stay home for the rest of the summer and play with each other! I never win by trying to make everyone happy! I always just end up regretting it because it never works. So next time don't ask. :0/